For centuries, humans have been dealing with circumstances and problems, whether it be relationships, money and other stuff that has an effect in our lives. Sadly, almost 97% of the population deal with these problems externally. When I say externally, they try to change their situations and how other people treat them by trying to do something outside of themselves, but to no avail. Can you somehow relate to what I am saying? Best example is when you see something that you don't like about a person, such as an attitude or a habit. You then try to tell them about it and ask them to change. Eventually, you will notice that as you focus on their problem, they tend to get worse and more problems and headaches occur?
This issue has been a mystery for me for many decades. Just to give you an idea, I have read and listened to so many self help, religious, and even “new thought” books and audio books. Not to mention joining organizations and religious groups. I have struggled and failed almost my entire life. These things seem to be good, based on what the norm and culture told us. I've read about people getting good results on those helpful tools and groups that I mentioned, but the fact is it did not work for me.
You might be doing okay with some areas of your life, but some part is really pulling your momentum down which is outrageous. And the most common problem for most people is dealing with relationships. It can be your spouse, relative, friend, neighbor, or a bum on the corner of the street. Still, their words and actions will always have a mental or emotional impact to you that you would wish to change.
Recently, I finally found a REAL solution to this problem that haunted me for so many years. And now I am going to share this to you. First let me tell you something very important. Most of us might know this but have been ignoring the power of it. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE TO ANYTHING THAT IS HAPPENING IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW! Yes, you read it right. You might say “what the hell are you talking about Paul? Are you serious? Are you implying that I've caused those people to hurt me, when it is clearly their fault and I have done nothing wrong to them?” Well, my answer is a resounding YES!
I believe you must have heard about the so called “Law of Attraction.” If you haven't, I believe you can check out Rhonda Byrne's “The Secret”, Joe Vitale's “The Attractor Factor, Or Wallace Wattles' “The Science of Getting Rich.” It gives you an overview about this law. It is as real as any other laws of nature such as the Law of Gravity, Law of Cause and Effect, and others. Law of Attraction is mostly defined as “like attracts like”. Whatever is going on in your mind, accompanied with a feeling, you will attract since it directly gives the command to your subconscious, which in turn manifest your thoughts to reality. Therefore, your current situation is only the result of your past thoughts and actions. This has been scientifically proven by quantum physicist so do not get me wrong. I have proven it personally. I have experienced it and that is why I am confident on sharing this with you. I am not going to further elaborate on it, if you want to know more about the law of attraction, you can just Google it or check out the book that I have mentioned above. But for now I will assume that you are already well informed about the said law since it has been very popular recently.
Now let's go back to the topic of this article. How did I solve my problem in dealing with difficult people? Can you really change them without telling them to do so? Once I have learned that we have this God-like power. I immediately put it into practice. Let me share you the basic steps which have been very effective for me. I have used the power of imagining. I learned these steps from the teachings of Neville Goddard. This is very powerful on using the law of attraction.
Here are the steps:
1. Sit down on a comfortable chair or lie down on your bed. Relax you mind and body and let go of any negative thoughts or worries.
2. Relax until you feel like your drowsiness is causing you to not want you to move any part of your body. Once you are on that state, it means that your power of imagination or subconscious is already open to suggestion.
3. Start thinking of the person you wish to change. Picture them as treating you the way you want them to. Treat them with loving thoughts and words on your current half asleep state. It does not need to take very long to imagine. A few minutes will do. Once you feel it as real like you have touched their hand or heard them talking to you. It should be enough.
4. Wake up and go back to your normal routine and believe that your wish is granted. You will be surprised on how powerful these steps are. Believe me.
It is important to know that the change happens internally. Once your subconscious received it through your imagination, the universe will start adjusting everything around you to grant your request. If you have doubts if what i am telling you is true, then try those steps and you be the judge.
Note that this is more powerful when you practice it before going to sleep at night. It is even more effective when you fall asleep while thinking of this loving imagination because the powerful subconscious is mostly at its peak when you are sleeping.
This process can also be applied on other areas of your life such as financial, job, and other stuffs.
I'd love to read about your results if these steps worked for you.